1. Kelly’s “Things to Change” List
    What did you think of Kelly’s strategy to create lists for self-improvement? Have you ever used a similar approach in your own life?
  2. Themes of Reinvention
    How does Kelly’s journey reflect the struggles many women face in midlife? Which aspects of her self-discovery resonated most with you?
  3. Friendship Dynamics
    Kelly’s friendships evolve throughout the novel. How does her relationship with her friends reflect the challenges and joys of female friendships?
  4. Marriage and Family
    How does Kelly’s marriage and role as a mother complicate her search for identity? Did you find her struggles realistic?
  5. Humor and Heart
    Rouda balances humor with heartfelt moments. Which parts made you laugh, and which struck you emotionally?
  6. The Setting of Suburbia
    How does the suburban setting amplify Kelly’s sense of being stuck—and her desire for change?
  7. The Title: “Here, Home, Hope”
    How do these three words—here, home, hope—capture Kelly’s journey? Which word spoke to you most in the context of the story?
  8. Personal Reflection
    Did Kelly’s journey inspire you to think about your own “things to change”? What might go on your list?