“If you’re never scared or embarrassed or hurt, it means you never take any chances.”-Julia Sorel (Rosalyn Drexler), See How She Runs, 1978
You know the feeling. For me, it’s sweaty palms. For you it may be a racing heart, or butterflies in the stomach—all those tell-tale signs that you’re uncomfortable. Your body is triggering the flight sensors, and you’re going to go along with it.
But then you take a deep breath, maybe have a little cry or call a friend, and realize this leap out of your comfort zone is what will propel you forward, get you to the next big thing. You realize that without the uneasy feeling of the unknown, it’s easy to be stuck in the familiar and known. To grow a business, and for that matter, to grow a life, you need to keep pushing. To keep growing and moving forward. To face your fears and take that leap is uncomfortable—whether it’s cold calling a prospect, public speaking, driving in a big city, moving to a new neighborhood, starting a business or being president of your civic association.
Remember, though, the more long-term discomfort in life comes from the regrets you have of challenges not taken, of opportunities missed.
So what’s holding you back? Why are you stuck in the comfort zone? What would happen in your life if you took that chance? And what, if anything, will happen if you don’t? Ten years from now, will you be glad you stayed in the zone, or sad you didn’t take the leap when you could?
Remember: “To dare is to lose one’s footing momentarily. To not dare is to lose oneself.”
-Soren Kierkegaard